Sexual Abuse & Assault Crisis Support – Worldwide
This page is for people who have experienced sexual abuse, sexual assault, unwanted sexual contact, coercion, exploitation, harassment, online sexual harm, or fear around sexual safety.
What happened was not your fault. You deserve support that is safe, confidential, respectful, trauma-informed, and led by your choices wherever possible.
If you are in immediate danger
If you are unsafe now, being threatened, injured, at risk of further harm, or feel unable to stay safe, contact emergency services now or move toward a safer place if you can.
- New Zealand: 111
- Australia: 000
- United States / Canada: 911
- UK / Europe: 999, 112, or your local emergency number
Gentle content notice
This page discusses sexual abuse, sexual assault, trauma, safety, medical support, reporting choices, emotional crisis, and urgent help. Please read slowly and pause whenever you need to.
You are believed here
Sexual harm can happen to anyone. You do not need to prove your pain to deserve support. You can ask for help even if you feel confused, numb, ashamed, frozen, angry, or unsure what to do.
You can choose your next step
You may want crisis support, medical care, advocacy, counselling, reporting information, safety planning, or simply someone safe to sit with you. Your choices matter.
Quick safety steps for right now
Choose the safest step for this moment. You do not need to make every decision right now.
Move toward safety
If possible, move away from the person or place causing harm. Go to a trusted person, public place, neighbour, hospital, police station, or safe service.
Contact support
Call, text, chat, or ask someone trusted to contact a sexual harm service, crisis line, emergency service, or medical provider with you.
Medical help can matter
If the assault was recent, medical care can support injuries, pregnancy/STI concerns, emergency contraception, forensic options, and emotional safety.
One gentle next step
- Get to somewhere safer if you can.
- Contact one trusted person or crisis service.
- If you are injured or worried medically, seek urgent medical care.
- If you want evidence preserved, try not to wash/change clothes until you get specialist advice — only if this feels safe and possible.
- You are allowed to ask what your options are without deciding everything now.
What support may include
Support after sexual abuse or assault can look different depending on what happened, where you are, your age, your safety, and what choices feel right for you.
| Support type | What it may help with | Helpful note |
|---|---|---|
| Crisis support | Immediate emotional support, grounding, safety planning, and deciding the next safest step. | You can use phone, text, webchat, or a trusted support person where available. |
| Medical care | Injuries, pregnancy/STI worries, emergency contraception, forensic options, and urgent health needs. | You can ask for a support person, interpreter, disability access, or trauma-informed care. |
| Advocacy | Understanding choices, reporting options, safety planning, appointments, and practical help. | Advocates can often support you even if you do not report to police. |
| Therapy / counselling | Trauma recovery, flashbacks, shame, fear, body memories, relationships, and ongoing emotional support. | You deserve support from someone safe, respectful, and trained in trauma. |
If this happened to you
If you have experienced sexual harm, your body and mind may respond in many ways. Freezing, going numb, not fighting back, not remembering clearly, or feeling confused are common trauma responses.
Things you can do now
- Go somewhere safer if possible.
- Tell one safe person what you need right now.
- Contact a sexual harm helpline or crisis support service.
- Seek medical support if there may be injury, pregnancy/STI risk, or recent assault.
- Use emergency services if you are unsafe now.
Copy-and-send message
“Something sexual happened that I did not want. I don’t feel okay and I need support. Can you stay with me or help me contact a sexual harm/crisis service?”
If someone tells you they were sexually abused or assaulted
How you respond matters. Believe them, stay calm, and let them have choices wherever possible.
What can help
- Say: “I believe you.”
- Say: “It was not your fault.”
- Ask what they need right now.
- Offer to stay with them or contact support together.
- Respect their choices unless there is immediate safety risk or mandatory safeguarding applies.
What to avoid
- Do not blame, question, shame, or minimise.
- Do not demand details.
- Do not force reporting if they are not ready, unless urgent safeguarding requires action.
- Do not touch them without asking.
- Do not share their story without consent unless safety law requires it.
Helpful phrase
“I believe you. I’m sorry this happened. You are not to blame. We can go at your pace and find support together.”
Worldwide sexual abuse & assault support contacts
Contact options can change, so check official service pages where possible. If there is immediate danger, use your local emergency number first.
New Zealand / Aotearoa
- Emergency: 111
- Safe to Talk: 0800 044 334, text 4334, webchat and email support for sexual harm
- 1737: free call or text 1737 any time for counselling support
- Victim Support: 0800 842 846
Australia
- Emergency: 000
- 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 for sexual assault, domestic and family violence support
- Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14
- Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380 for trauma and abuse support
United States
- Emergency: 911
- RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800 656 HOPE / 800 656 4673
- 988 Lifeline: call, text, or chat 988 for emotional distress and crisis support
Canada
- Emergency: 911
- 9-8-8 Canada: call or text 9-8-8 for suicide crisis support
- Local support: use provincial sexual assault centres, crisis lines, victim services, or emergency departments
United Kingdom
- Emergency: 999 or 112
- Rape Crisis England & Wales: 24/7 support line and online chat
- Samaritans: 116 123
- NHS urgent support: NHS 111 or local Sexual Assault Referral Centre pathways
Ireland
- Emergency: 112 or 999
- Dublin Rape Crisis Centre: national 24-hour helpline where available
- Samaritans: 116 123
- Local support: use sexual violence services, GP/doctor, emergency department, or crisis pathways
Europe
- Emergency: 112 in many European countries
- Local support: search for sexual assault, rape crisis, victim support, emergency medical, or domestic violence services in your country
- Language access: ask for interpreter or translated support where available
International / worldwide
- Find a Helpline: search by country and topic, including sexual abuse, domestic violence, trauma, self-harm, and suicide prevention
- Befrienders Worldwide: emotional support and suicide prevention directory
If you are unsure what to use
Choose the safest urgent option: emergency services for immediate danger, sexual assault crisis support for specialist help, medical care for health needs, or text/chat if speaking feels too hard.
Accessible and trauma-informed support options
Sexual harm can make speaking, remembering, decision-making, movement, trust, touch, or eye contact harder. Support should adapt wherever possible.
Text or chat support
Text and webchat can be easier when talking feels impossible, unsafe, or overwhelming.
Open text/chat supportCommunication access
For AAC, typing, writing, yes/no answers, non-speaking support, and extra processing time.
Open communication accessTrauma-informed support
For trauma responses, flashbacks, dissociation, shutdown, sensory overwhelm, or needing choice-based support.
Open trauma supportWhere to go next
These pages can help connect this topic into the wider crisis support structure.
Crisis Support by Topic
Return to the main topic doorway for different types of crisis support.
Open topic supportAbuse & Domestic Violence Support
For unsafe homes, coercive control, family violence, or relationship abuse support.
Open abuse supportTrauma, PTSD & Flashbacks
For trauma responses, flashbacks, dissociation, panic, or feeling unsafe after triggers.
Open trauma supportSuicide & Self-Harm Crisis Support
For suicidal thoughts, self-harm urges, or feeling unable to stay safe.
Open suicide/self-harm supportText & Chat Crisis Support
For lower-pressure non-phone crisis support options.
Open text/chat supportCrisis Support by Location
Find emergency and crisis support by country or region.
Open location supportYou are not to blame. You deserve safe support, choice, care, and protection.