Parents & Carers Crisis Support (New Zealand)

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NZ Crisis Support Directory

Parents & Carers Crisis Support (NZ)

If you’re supporting someone you love through a mental health crisis, it can feel scary and exhausting. This page helps you find the next step quickly — and reminds you that you deserve support too.

🧡 Support for carers ✅ Simple next steps 📍 NZ local crisis teams 💬 Text / chat options
Content notice: This page discusses mental health crisis support and may feel heavy. If you are in immediate danger, call 111 now. If you can, reach out to a trusted person or use the support options below.
Disclaimer: Aspie Answers is an education and resource hub and does not provide medical advice. Crisis numbers and service details can change. If a number is not working, you can call or text 1737 (NZ) and ask to be connected to your local crisis team.

Start here (right now)

If you’re overwhelmed, choose the option that feels most doable — even if it’s a tiny step. You can come back and choose a different option later.

Support options (choose what fits)

🚨 If someone isn’t safe right now

If there is immediate danger, call 111 or go to ED. If you can, stay with the person until support arrives.

💬 If talking feels too hard

Text or chat options can be easier when you’re stressed, tired, or overstimulated.

🧭 Need urgent help (official info)

If you want an official “what to do next” pathway, this page includes 24/7 options and advice.

🧠 Calm tools & grounding

If you need a first step (breathing, grounding, pacing, safe distraction), start here.

If you’re supporting someone you love

What to do (simple steps)

1) Regulate the moment: slow voice, slower breathing, softer body language.
2) Ask one clear question: “Are you safe right now?”
3) Offer two choices: “Text or call?” / “Sit together or go for air?”
4) Take one step, then reassess: you don’t have to solve everything today.

Carer reminder: You are allowed to ask for help for yourself too. If you’re exhausted or frightened, reach out to a friend, family member, or support line — you don’t have to carry this alone.

Find support in my area (NZ)

Choose your region (call your local crisis team)

Tap your region to call the local mental health crisis team. If you’re unsure where you fit, choose the closest main centre.

Also helpful: Healthpoint, Need urgent help (Te Whatu Ora), Family Services Directory.

Northland 📞 Call 0800 223 371 →
After-hours crisis line
Auckland (South / Counties Manukau) 📞 Call (09) 261 3700 →
If unsure, use the “Need urgent help” page above.
Bay of Plenty (Tauranga) 📞 Call 0800 800 508 →
Bay of Plenty (Whakatāne) 📞 Call 0800 774 545 →
Lakes (Rotorua / Taupō) 📞 Call 0800 166 167 →
Taranaki 📞 Call (06) 753 6139 →
Ask for crisis team (ext 7680)
Wellington (Capital & Coast / Te Haika) 📞 Call 0800 745 477 →
South Canterbury 📞 Call 0800 277 997 →
Otago / Southland 📞 Call 0800 467 846 →
Press 1 for Southland • Press 2 for Otago
If you can’t get through: Call or text 1737 (NZ) and ask to be put through to your local crisis team. If someone is in immediate danger, call 111.

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