Supporting someone who is struggling can feel hard — especially when you’re worried about saying the wrong thing. This page offers gentle guidance on what helps, what to avoid, and how to show care without pressure or judgement.
Listening without fixing, believing their experience, respecting boundaries, and being patient all help build trust and safety.
✔ Listen without interrupting
✔ Validate feelings
✔ Ask how you can help
✔ Encourage professional support
✖ Minimising feelings
✖ Offering quick fixes
✖ Comparing struggles
✖ Taking control without consent
“I’m really glad you told me.” • “That sounds hard.” • “You don’t have to go through this alone.”
Pause. Take two slow breaths. Gently remind yourself: “Being present is enough.”
You don’t need perfect words. Kindness, patience, and consistency matter more than saying the “right” thing.
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