Gentle answers for common questions about mental health, getting help, and what to do next — in a way that feels safe and clear.
This page includes mental health support topics. You can take breaks, skip sections, and come back later. If you feel unsafe right now (or might hurt yourself), go straight to Urgent help.
If a question isn’t listed, that doesn’t mean it’s “wrong”. It just means you’re human.
Lots of teens go through periods of stress, overwhelm, low mood, or anxiety — especially when life is changing fast.
What matters most is whether it’s affecting your daily life (sleep, school, friendships, eating, motivation, safety).
That’s okay. You can still get support.
If you’re worried about safety, it’s okay to ask an adult to help you find the right next step — without sharing everything.
That can feel awful — and it doesn’t mean you should stop trying.
You deserve someone who takes you seriously.
Therapy can feel weird at first — that’s normal.
This is a common feeling when you’ve been carrying too much for too long.
But you are not a burden. You are a person who needs support — and that’s allowed.
If this feeling gets intense or you feel unsafe, please jump to Urgent help.
If you don’t know what to say, try one of these:
You can care deeply and still have boundaries.
School can sometimes be the easiest “first step” support.
You can say: “I’m struggling and I’m not sure what support is available.”
If you feel unsafe right now, or you might hurt yourself:
Helpful next step: Keep this page open and ask someone to sit with you while you reach out.
Note: You can swap these buttons later to your NZ / global directory pages when you’re ready.
Pick one. No pressure. The goal is to help your body feel a little safer.
Name:
Repeat 3 times. If holding is hard, skip holds.
If you want structure, start here:
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